How can you tell if he’s watching a lot of Porn? Or keeping another secret? How do you know if this has crossed the line and is a problem?

I’ll tell you exactly what to look for and how to tell if he has a problem.
This will be helpful if you’ve been wondering if your boyfriend, husband or signifiant other has a problem, but your’e not sure and you don’t know what to do!

There is also a difference between someone who watches porn and someone who has a bigger problem or addiction. How do you know if he has a real porn addiction though? I will help you sort this out. There are a few signs that signify that he has a problem that needs to be addressed. If he is very secretive around this topic or around his computer and devices, that could signify a bigger problem. Like with other addictions, if he has tried to stop or cut back but has not been able to (or continually relapses or starts hiding things again) then it may be a bigger problem. 

The impacts of this on you can range. At the severe end it can end up being very traumatic. If he has been keeping a secret, watching a lot of porn behind your back, participating in chatrooms or having an affair, then the impact on you and the relationship is obviously more severe. This can literally cause PTSD symptoms called betrayal trauma. If you think that may be you, check out some of my other videos for support. 

What are the impacts of being lied to? How do you heal from these?
http://bit.ly/impactoflying

How to Deal with (and Move Past) Your Partners Confession- http://bit.ly/theirconfession

What is betrayal trauma and how do you heal from it?
http://bit.ly/whatisbetrayaltrauma

If you have further questions, please ask!