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Yes. Unfortunately, many struggle alone and never know how many others are also struggling or that people like us are here to help. Shame and negative self-talk are often key components that keep us stuck in our negative behaviors and feeling alone and helpless.

Are video sessions effective?

Yes. And there are many awesome pros to video session including a more flexible schedule, the convenience of not having to leave your house or office to see your therapist and we can follow you as you move or travel and ensure that your growth and progress is not interrupted.

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“Diana was my first therapist who stayed and had a variety of tools to help me do my work. She did not try to fix me, but was supportive in me doing my work!”

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“No other therapist took the time to really bond with my son and earn his trust. He has made more progress in the last few months working with Diana than in years of seeing therapists before this. We feel so blessed to have found her.”

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“She’s done a wonderful job at supporting me and gives real and helpful advice and strategies for coping and improving.”

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“Diana has amazing skills and great compassion to open our son up to learn the things he needed to learn in order to be more successful in life. She changed our world. Our son always pulls coping skills out of is tool bag that he learned from Diana. We will forever be grateful for her insight into our son and her willingness to go above and beyond to help him have a better life”

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How to Deal with Post Sexual Assault Trauma

by Diana | January 21, 2018 | Ask Diana, Individual Treatment, Self-improvement, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

*Trigger Warning* Here I answer a very personal question that was submitted on "Ask Diana", regarding post trauma fantasies. Everyone has different experiences, struggles, thoughts, emotions and trauma after being assaulted. Some of these can be really confusing and...

When the Ones we Love Most Hurt Us (Betrayal Trauma)

by Diana | October 10, 2018 | Betrayal Trauma, Depression, Individual Treatment, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Trauma | 0 Comments

This truly is one of the hardest pieces of Betrayal Trauma. We aren't hurt (or able to be hurt this bad) by strangers or those we don't care about. This level of pain and Betrayal can only be caused by people we love. People we are committed to. People...

How to deal with Jealousy in my Relationship

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Ask Diana, Confidence, Couples Therapy, Relationships, Self-improvement, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

Let's talk through the different types of jealousy and how to best handle them! This includes jealousy that is a sign of a bigger issue, jealousy that signifies something really is wrong and "normal" jealousy.

Getting through heartbreak

by Diana | November 27, 2017 | Depression, Individual Treatment, Relationships, Therapy | 0 Comments

Heartbreak has to be one of the most painful things you can ever go through. Have you ever just wished you could move on from your feelings? That you would just stop thinking about that person or situation? I know I have! And many of my clients come to me struggling...

How do I deal with my partner not meeting my needs?

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Individual Treatment, Relationships, Self-improvement | 0 Comments

What do you do if your partner can't/won't/doesn't want to meet your needs? Do you figure out how to make them or convince them? Find other outlets? A new relationship? We will talk through all of these things and more in this video! Relationship therapy isn't for...

How to Help Someone who is Addicted to Porn

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Ask Diana, Coping Skills, Couples Therapy, Depression, Family, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction | 0 Comments

Mental Health Therapist Diana Baldwin will walk you through how to help someone with a porn or sex addiction. This is not a simple task for either of you, but there are things you can do to that will make this process easier! If you are trying to deal with someone’s...

Coping Skills to help you better manage- Emotions, Stress and Addictions

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Anxiety, Coping Skills, Depression, Individual Treatment, Self-improvement, Stress, Therapy, Trauma | 0 Comments

Clinical Therapist Diana Baldwin will walk you through a simple and very effective coping skills and teach you how to adapt it to work best for you! Use this to manage frustration, anger, stress, overwhelm, urges and negative thoughts. Reach out to me to receive...

How do you know if your husband is watching porn?

by Diana | December 21, 2017 | Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Pornography, Relationships, Therapy | 0 Comments

See my answer to the question, "My sex life isn't what it used to be, how do I know if my husband is watching porn?". I will also give you the 6 signs your partner is likely watching porn or keeping a secret from you.

How to Heal after being Cheated on

by Diana | September 28, 2018 | Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Depression, Individual Treatment, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Therapy, Trauma, Uncategorized | 0 Comments

How can you heal and move on after being cheated on? How do you get past trust issues? Is this even possible!? Recovering from infidelity can be so difficult (at best) and traumatic (at worst). Our partners cheating on us or keeping a serious secrets literally can...

What not to say to someone Grieving

by Diana | February 9, 2019 | Depression, Family, Grief, Individual Treatment, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

Today my sister (who is a Hospice Nurse) and I recount the worst things they have heard said to someone grieving. These things can be so harmful! We will discuss what to say and what not to say to someone who is grieving and how you can better support someone (or...

What Should I Expect from Group Therapy?

by Diana | September 29, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

Are you wondering if you should try out group therapy? Are you nervous about what it will be like? Therapist Diana Baldwin will answer these questions and shed some light on what group therapy is like, what you can expect, what the first meeting is like and the...

How to Deal with (and Move Past) Your Partners Confession

by Diana | August 16, 2018 | Ask Diana, Coping Skills, Couples Therapy, Depression, Individual Treatment, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Stress, Therapy, Trauma | 0 Comments

Finding out your partner has been lying to you is a betrayal and very traumatic! There are two ways people find out their partner has been hiding something. Either they catch them, or they confess. Both of those are terribly hard to deal with and some aspects of...

5 signs he’s watching A LOT of Porn

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Depression, Family, Individual Treatment, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Stress | 0 Comments

How can you tell if he's watching a lot of Porn? Or keeping another secret? How do you know if this has crossed the line and is a problem? I'll tell you exactly what to look for and how to tell if he has a problem. This will be helpful if you've been wondering if your...

What is my therapist really thinking and feeling?

by Diana | May 8, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Individual Treatment, Therapy | 0 Comments

What is your therapist really thinking & feeling? Do they think about you outside of session? Do they ever cry in session? I'm answering all your questions on these topics today! Check out other videos on these topics- What therapists really think when you cry-...

How to lessen your ANXIETY about the Coronavirus I 4 Tips

by Diana | April 25, 2020 | Anxiety, Coping Skills, Depression | 0 Comments

Have you been feeling anxious about the Coronavirus & current events? Stress, worry, the unknown of Covid-19 are impacting all of us. Today i'Il go over some tips to help you (and me!) better manage anxiety and negative thoughts.Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet,...

Finding creative outlets for pain AND how to decide if you should share your work with others

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Ask Diana, Coping Skills, Individual Treatment, Self-improvement, Stress, Therapy, Trauma | 0 Comments

Have you found or been wanting to find a creative outlet for your pain, thoughts or emotions? Have you struggled to know if you should share this with anyone? Our creations can be deeply personal and intense, sometimes these are better kept to ourselves and sometimes...

I think I am too attached to my therapist, how I can I get over this?

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Depression, Individual Treatment, Relationships, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

Is there something wrong with my attachment to my therapis? Im answering this question that was submitted on "Ask Diana" today! "I would really like it if you could do a video on how to miss a therapist less and move on from them/how to think about them less. I...

What are the impacts of being lied to? How do you heal from these?

by Diana | August 14, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Depression, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Therapy, Trauma | 0 Comments

The impacts of being lied to are FAR more severe than we ever thought. If you have been lied to, chances are this is impacting you much more than you realize. The good news is, this is not your fault and you can start healing from it! Let's talk through what the...

6 signs that your partner has a pornography addiction and what you can do about it

by Diana | August 29, 2017 | Couples Therapy, Individual Treatment, Pornography, Relationships, Stress | 0 Comments

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Learn How-To Set Boundaries (even when it’s really hard!)

by Diana | May 9, 2019 | Ask Diana, Boundaries, Confidence, Depression, Individual Treatment, Relationships, Therapy | 0 Comments

Setting boundaries is tough! It does get easier though, and it is so worth working on. After you've watched the last video on the 6 types of boundaries you need to understand, your'e ready to jump into how to start setting boundaies. Learning to set boundaires...

How to cope with Sadness

by Diana | August 24, 2017 | Anxiety, Depression, Individual Treatment, Therapy | 0 Comments

What do most people do when they feel sad? They typically try and distract from it. They eat, they drink, they watch TV, they talk to someone. Some reach for drugs, porn or another “coping skill” of choice. What they typically don’t do is sit with it, feel it and let...

How do you know if your husband is watching porn?

by Diana | December 21, 2017 | Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Pornography, Relationships, Therapy | 0 Comments

These are the Reasons People Cheat

by Diana | September 28, 2018 | Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Depression, Family, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Stress, Therapy, Trauma | 0 Comments

We're addressing the questions, why do people cheat? & should cheating be the end of that relationship? There are a few reasons and circumstances in which people cheat. If you have more to add, let us know! Our last video goes more into healing after being cheated...

Should I leave my partner after they cheated?

by Diana | November 21, 2017 | Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Family, Relationships, Stress | 0 Comments

How to Help Someone who is Addicted to Porn

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Ask Diana, Coping Skills, Couples Therapy, Depression, Family, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction | 0 Comments

How to Deal with Post Sexual Assault Trauma

by Diana | January 21, 2018 | Ask Diana, Individual Treatment, Self-improvement, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

What is betrayal trauma?

by Diana | February 12, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Depression, Family, Individual Treatment, Pornography, Relationships, Stress, Therapy | 0 Comments

What is betrayal trauma? How do you know if you are suffering from it? What can you do if you are traumatized after finding out your partner has been cheating or keeping devastating secrets? This video will answer all of these questions and more. Possible betrayal...

What are the impacts of being lied to? How do you heal from these?

by Diana | August 14, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Couples Therapy, Depression, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Therapy, Trauma | 0 Comments

I know I need help, but where do I start!?

by Diana | August 8, 2018 | Individual Treatment, Self-improvement, Therapy | 0 Comments

Let's talk about what to do, when you know you need to do something, but don't know where to start! These 4 simple steps will help you move from confused and overwhelmed to focused and on track. If you have been wondering, "Where should I start!", then this video is...

How to Feel, Deal with and Process your Emotions

by Diana | October 24, 2018 | Anxiety, Ask Diana, Depression, Individual Treatment, Stress, Trauma | 0 Comments

Have you ever wondered, "why am I so emotional!" or on the flip side, "how come I cant feel or work through my emotions!?" Or maybe you wonder if your'e feeling what you "should" be feeling? Or maybe struggle to process emotions, so you try to avoid them as much as...

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